A simple and happy dinner with my princess!

After she knocked off, i fetched her from work and mutually agreed to have dinner at Old Airport Road Food centre where we had a bowl of "Century egg with lean meat plus liver porridge accompanied by a stick of freshly fried You Tiao"... Yummy!!! As we ate, my partner called to discuss about the takeover of a shop and the newly opened Handphone cum Games Electronics kisok.

When i ended my conversation, my princess gently asked" So how is it going"? You are going to open another new shop" she asked with a concern tone.. I knew she is concerned and share with her about my planning but still she still have her good intentions concern about the fast progress rate that i am going.. As she prompted further into details about the risks of my fast progress, i started to get a little uncomfortable and my replied tone began to get a little impatient..

Then i paused... cause i felt i'm getting a little too impatient on my replies to her queries and decided to tone down and resume my soft tone to continue our conversation.. :) All went well and I'm glad that i paused and recomposed myself to continue the conversation. At that paused moment, i was thinking if i can always talk to my friends and clients nicely, why can't i do the same to the lady that i'm deeply in love? And to my family members as well especially to our mum & dad... I can remembered that in my younger days when my dad asked me whether wanna have dinner now, my reply will be" Later la!!!" in a very harsh tone but my dad didn't get angry... Come to think of it, i'm kinda bad kid at that time..

Sometimes we felt that we are very right on a certain issue and forget a word called "Humble".
There are our loved ones who are very concern about our well beings that from time to time we classify their concerns as "Kpo"...

Appreciate what you have learned, share what you have got.
Be humble to all and all good will come..

The Happiest Moment of my Life

At 0129am today, i am the happiest and luckiest man on earth as the lady whom i love deeply unconditionally has returned to my side. I sincerely expressed my feelings to her again and reaffirmed that we are too precious to one another to split up as we still shared the belief that our love for one another are unqiuely strong and i will not allow our r/s to break up just because of a misunderstanding or rather a insentive mistake of mine to bring down this special r/s.

My tears down rolled down when she finally agreed to give our r/s a chance and believe me when i hear her said "YES", my heart melted and instantly my tears came pouring down.. I hugged her and sincerely thanked her for this chance and i will cherish this chance till the last day of my life. Later she sms me " This is the first time i see you dropped tears"... I smiled to myself and acknowledging firmly that is because i am truly deeply in love with her, she will be the only lady i will ever love and will be the only one that i will marry...

Through this misunderstanding, i learned a lot that man and woman are 2 different unique human beings where we need to recognise and respect the differences between us in terms of opinions, characteristics and mentality. We, men should always at all times embrace the lady we loved with compassion, protect them when they need you, listen to them when they wanna talk and cherish them everyday when together for we do not know what lies ahead the next day.

Men are built as a stronger being while women are fragile.. Men tends to look at bigger picture but women are detailed. Most men are ego oriented while woman are sensitive for valid reason. If we truly open our hearts out and understand the differences between men and women, the differences are actually complementing one another.. But sometimes we tends to overlook this understanding and therefore a misunderstanding arises..

Love life will be a simple and happy process if we want it to be simple and happy.. One of my friend told me last night:" In a r/s, it's between you and her, how both of you are going to run this r/s, is totally depend on both of you. No one can intervene as they cant be accountable for the success or failure of your r/s but both of you are accountable for each other.." I am enlighted by his statement and i will learn and will continue to learn to be a better man.

Lastly, i sincerely thank all my brothers and Lawrence's wife in helping me organising the beautiful light sticks set up and witnesssing the precious moments of the reunion of our r/s. I would also like to specially thank Mr.Orange for his great help for all the things he did for us. You know what i meant bro.. Dogxxxx!!!! hahahaha...

PS: Dear dear, i love you... : )

A Lady whom i love deeply.

As i am writing this blog, i am wondering what she has been doing for the past 12 days... Did she cry a lot? Have she lost a lot weight? Did she sleep well?

If she cried, my heart will bleed. If she lost weight, i will lost my strength to move. If she does not sleep well, my eyes will ache.. And if i will to eventually lose her, it will be end of the world for me.. For which i cant afford to lose her, i cant find another Hb dear dear... She is the first ever lady that makes me truly understand the meaning of true love..

All i wanna said is i have never done anything unfaithful to her and i remain faithful to her till the day she is by my side again..

I love you!

A Financial Crisis or A Man Made Crisis?

Since 2008 when the US sub prime mortgage problem surfaced, it creates tremendous negative impact on the global economy which witnessed the fall of Lehman Brothers, AIG the once largest insurer in the world with US$1 Trillion assets seeking US Govt bailout, Citi Group share price plunge below US1 and so on..... No one was spared from this crisis!



Since then, people like you & me are hoping that things would get better, no retrenchments, no pay cut and our dependents will not be at risk. I truly understand these concerns because we are all concern for our "SURVIVAL". Because of this, it leads me to think further how did this crisis even happened? Where actually did all the money go? Did it just disappear and vanish into thin air because of this crisis? Or was this crisis another innovative creation by a bunch of smarter human beings?



I do understand that everyone makes mistake but Corporations which benefited from this crisis should be investigated cause the entire world (which make up the global economy) is suffering due to the faulty financial products introduced and therefore any profit gained out of it should be returned to where it came from.

A lot of my friends, colleagues and my clients shared with me that this crisis is "part and parcel of the economy which generally meant that what goes up, must come down". Then i asked most of them to share why they think so and their replies are because history shows that every 10 years or so there will be a recession and it's the cycle of the economy. I paused and asked them "Is it true that economy must behave in this manner"? They paused too with a confused expression... Then they asked me for my opinion and i shared " Generally, economy do not behave this such manner, it's us, human beings made the economy to behave like that. And why? The most valid reason maybe for monetary factor which may led to greed factor and in return a recession arise..

If we really think about it, all these are the creations of human beings which includes the Great Depression, the Asian Financial Crisis and the current crisis. Why cant economy grow at a steady and consistant pace? Who affirms that economy must go through recession every 10 years? Or what is an economy in the first place? Is the so called economy improving the lives of all mankind or it is just a manipulation process? I hope to learn more and able to share in my next write up.. Regards.

A very sad news for my first post

Yesterday i was being informed that another Singaporean being was contracted with 3rd stage Breast cancer, i was shocked and shattered by this news. The affected being is a late 60s lady, my close friend's mother, a very hardworking mum who has given all she have to the family and treats everyone she knows as her best friend and treats me as her very own son.

My eyes became watery as my friend spoke in a breakdown tone " She is in her 3rd stage and things are not looking good for her". She eventually cried and could not talk to me further....
I truly understand her feelings as i too have painful memories of losing my cousin sister 10 years ago where she contracted Leukaemia. Leukaemia is a type of cancer that affects the white blood cells.

Through sms, we talked again.
The first sms from her was " She is a good mother, why must it be her"? Instantly i could not answer her, I sat and looked at the sms for quite a while before replying... " There is no way i can ask you not to be sad but i urge you to be strong for your mother as the family needs you. For a drop of tear u dropped, your mum will dropped more, a tone of saddness you speak, your mum will be sadder. I have no cure for your mother but i believe with true care, love and concern, she will feel blessed, she will be happy and who knows miracle might just happen. Even if she does not recover, she will feel she is most fortunate mum with so much care, love and concern surrounding her. I will pray hard for her"! She replied ok and the conversation ended...

I sat on my bed and think... We do not know what are the uncertainties ahead, we reflect on yesterday doings and predict on tomorrow happenings, for today we should cherish our loved ones and embrace them with compassion and true love when there is still time. God Bless...